{"id":2212,"date":"2023-07-19T20:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-19T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/?p=2212"},"modified":"2026-09-04T15:03:16","modified_gmt":"2026-09-04T06:03:16","slug":"have-a-seat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/have-a-seat\/","title":{"rendered":"Have a Seat"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_section et_pb_section_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et_section_regular et_block_section\" >\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_row et_pb_row_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et_block_row\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column et_pb_column_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et-last-child et_block_column\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_text et_pb_text_0  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <strong>Waypoints<\/strong> season 2, one of our stories was called \u201c<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/project\/bread-alone-1\/\">Bread Alone<\/a><\/strong>,\u201d illustrated by <strong>Masiu<\/strong>. This manga was adapted from a story found in the Bible (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Luke+10%3A38-42&amp;version=NIV\" rel=\"noopener\">Luke 10:38-42<\/a>) and features a character named Martha.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this story, <strong>Martha is really stressed out!<\/strong> She feels pulled in different directions trying to be the perfect host, to do what\u2019s right for Jesus. Meanwhile her sister Mary sits at Jesus\u2019 feet, listening to him teach. Martha is critical of Mary for not helping her, and eventually loses her cool.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But as is often the case with the Bible\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><strong>There\u2019s more going on here than meets the eye.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One BIG thing that modern readers easily miss here is that, actually, Mary is breaking social and cultural norms here. In first century Jewish society, women didn\u2019t normally socialize with men in this way. The outer room, where Jesus and his disciples sat, was for the men. Women, in this situation, belonged in the kitchen.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_image et_pb_image_0\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"294\" src=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1b.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"2023-06_bread1b\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1b.jpg 801w, https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1b-480x176.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 801px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-2216\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_text et_pb_text_1  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p><strong>But there\u2019s another norm that Mary is breaking here:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To sit at Jesus\u2019 feet is to take on the posture of a <strong>disciple<\/strong>. In that society, women couldn\u2019t be disciples or rabbis (teachers) \u2014 to \u201csit at the feet of\u201d a rabbi meant to be his disciple, possibly becoming a rabbi yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, culturally speaking, Mary was breaking the rules, and Martha was right to be upset. And Martha expected Jesus to take her side.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But instead, Jesus said, <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>\u201cThere\u2019s only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it, and it won\u2019t be taken away from her.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_image et_pb_image_1\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"429\" src=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1c.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"2023-06_bread1c\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1c.jpg 801w, https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1c-480x257.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 801px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-2217\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_text et_pb_text_2  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> affirmed Mary\u2019s right to be there, with the men, as a fellow disciple. This would have been huge at the time \u2014 scandalous, even.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong style=\"color: #70308c; font-size: 22px;\"><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong style=\"color: #70308c; font-size: 22px;\">But this is very much in-character for Jesus.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">In the Bible, throughout Jesus\u2019 story, we see Him cross man-made barriers again and again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px; color: #3c265c; font-weight: 500;\">We have highlighted this multiple times in Waypoints too: Jesus showing compassion for an enemy (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/project\/the-centurion-episode1\/\">Centurion<\/a>), accepting traitor as his disciple (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/project\/what-else-could-i-do-episode1\/\">What Else Could I Do?<\/a>), speaking truth with kindness to someone from another culture (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/project\/the-well-episode1\/\">The Well<\/a>), taking time for a sick and lonely person (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/project\/a-desperate-woman\/\">A Desperate Woman<\/a>), and showing a child he can play an important role (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/project\/a-place-at-the-table-episode1\/\">A Place at the Table<\/a>).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Jesus accepted, gave honor and dignity to those the culture of his day did not\u2026 including women.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">We don\u2019t know how Martha, Mary or the others in the room reacted to Jesus\u2019 words<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\"> here<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">. <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">The Bible doesn\u2019t tell us. <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">In our manga, we ended the story with some of the men volunteering to help in the kitchen, then everyone happily enjoying the meal together.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_image et_pb_image_2\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"261\" src=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1d.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"2023-06_bread1d\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1d.jpg 801w, https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1d-480x156.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 801px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-2218\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_text et_pb_text_3  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Realistically, that\u2019s probably NOT what happened. But we wrote it this way because we believe that Jesus pointed ahead to a world where this could and should happen; where men and women are equal, as are people of different races, cultures and social statuses\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another Bible passage, written by an early church leader to a group of Christians, says this:\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><strong>\u201cThere is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. \u201c<\/strong> (Gal. 3:28)<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h4><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In other words, whoever you are...<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>There\u2019s a place for YOU at the feet of Jesus.<\/strong> <\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like Mary, you can be a disciple of Jesus, have a relationship with God, and gain wisdom, direction and purpose for your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Why not have a seat?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div><div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_image et_pb_image_3\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"801\" height=\"335\" src=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1e.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"2023-06_bread1e\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1e.jpg 801w, https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2023-06_bread1e-480x201.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 801px, 100vw\" class=\"wp-image-2219\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2213,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bible"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2212","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2212"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2212\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3621,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2212\/revisions\/3621"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2213"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waypoints.jp\/english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}